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Professional Pain
A few months ago, an artist friend of mine, who hosts with FASO, received an email from another, newer, art website hosting company comparing themselves to FASO.
After presenting a list of features (carefully chosen to present themselves in the best possible light and FASO in the worst possible light) they presented their verdict: "FASO has 13% of the features of us."
Ouch.
My life's work was just dismissed as being only 13% of what a new startup has accomplished in a couple of years.
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After being in the gallery business for 12 years, I started FASO in 2001, after a conversation with Kevin Macpherson, to solve a very real need for artists - a simple way for them to create and maintain a great website to showcase their artworks. I've devoted myself to this and related work. I've produced what I can, day in and day out, for 29 years to further beautiful art in the world, and, to do what I can to empower artists to live their dreams and inspire the world. It is not an exaggeration in any way when I claim that BoldBrush and FASO are my life's work. Much in the same way, for you, your painting and your past body of work embodies your artistic legacy.
I don't share this background to claim I'm some sort of martyr for art. To be sure, I enjoy what I do, and I have been rewarded well for it. But that doesn't change the fact that this is what I've devoted my life to doing. This thing called "BoldBrush" is my attempt to "Make a dent in the universe."
And I share it so you understand that when someone dismisses my work as irrelevant, there is some real pain that goes with that. The same pain you probably feel when your work is dismissed or criticized.
How Professionals Deal with Pain
Having been in the art business for nearly three decades, I feel I've earned the right to say I'm a professional at what I do. And I've learned one big difference between professionals and non-professionals: Professionals process the pain of criticism and complaints into positive outcomes.
Especially with the rise of social media, we live in a world where people feel free to share feedback, criticize, complain and just generally bitch about anything and everything. Most of the people doing the complaining don't stop and think of the effect they might be having on those they are directing their complaints toward.
Unscrupulous competitors will tell falsehoods or half-truths about you, or share half the story to show themselves in the best light and you in a poor light...as in the opening story.
Non-professionals have the luxury of getting upset and striking back at these people. Non-professionals have the luxury of avoiding real criticism. If you're a weekend warrior, you can choose not seek out real hard-hitting critiques of your art. But if you want to be a professional, if you want to truly master your craft, you have the duty to seek out the best critiques you can get and act on that feedback.
As I said: Professionals process the pain of criticism and complaints into positive outcomes. In fact, professionals are usually their own worst critics.
When people criticize you, the feedback falls into two categories:
1. It's not true
2. It is true
Either way, it typically stings.
After all, we put our heart and soul into these creations, and then someone comes along and basically says, "that sucks." What gives them that right? Don't they know how much time, blood, sweat and tears went into your work? Who do they think they are anyway?
These are all valid thoughts but, it's important to realize many of these thoughts stem from the primitive "fight or flight" part of our brains. And as humans, we have "two brains" - the primitive, emotional part and the logical, higher-reasoning part. And, if you are a professional, it's important to push past the pain and knee-jerk reactions...so that you can think about the criticism with the higher, logical part of your brain.
The first decision you must make is to decide if the feedback is true or not. If it's not true, you can simply dismiss it. Wasting any further time on it doesn't help you professionally, so simply move on. However, you must be honest in this assessment. You can't use this as an excuse to dismiss all criticism. You much honestly and openly look at the criticism and ask, "is there any truth in it?"
If there is truth in it, and this is where professionals diverge from non-professionals, you must decide how to logically address it to improve your craft.
So, after you've gotten past your lizard-brain's fight or flight reaction, it's time to be logical: Ask yourself, "Does it matter?"
If your aim is to be a great landscape painter and someone criticized the proportions in the deer of that one wildlife painting you tried....it doesn't matter. Just dismiss it. Yes, it might be true - you can't paint a deer. But it's also irrelevant, since you know the path you're following doesn't need for you to master a deer's anatomy.
But, if the criticism is true and it does matter (and these are the areas that hurt the most when criticized), then therein lies your opportunity. This is the type of criticism you want to act upon. If you want to be a great landscape painter and Kevin Macpherson tells you, "your sky is too blue, remember that the sky isn't always blue, rather, it always reflects the color in the land", you now have something specific to work on. You have been given the gift of a specific idea to make your paintings more dramatic and harmonious. You have actionable advice.
That's what professionals do. They don't pretend, they act.
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After receiving the comparison to FASO by the startup hosting company, my lizard brain went through it's reactions "How dare they attack my life's work!", "This is a fight they really don't want!", "Wow, what a bunch of lies!", etc. I let myself float up into my neocortex and the rational, logical part of my brain. Remember, that's the part where you ask, "are they correct?"
After dismissing the things on their list that were incorrect or irrelevant, there were a handful of items that were interesting...So we took the opportunity to talk with customers about some of those ideas and how they might like to see them implemented in "the FASO way". Those conversations and design sessions have changed the ideas into something that is different and unique. And into something every artist wants on their website and that doesn't exist anywhere in total. We have developers working on those ideas now.
And that's how a professional reacts - you can stay mired in the negative reactions. Or you can realize, as we did, that our critic just presented us with the gift of specific ideas to consider. Ideas that push us to get better. If you can move to the logical side of your brain, you'll see that criticism itself can be a great gift and a great opportunity.
And you can channel that initial pain into a positive outcome.
Welcome to being a professional.
Sincerely,
Clint Watson
BoldBrush/FASO Founder and Art Fanatic
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